Relationship & Marriage Coaching
Learn how to talk to each other again.
Most couples don’t come in fighting about the thing they’re actually fighting
about. Underneath the dishes and the schedule and the tone of voice, there’s usually
something that hasn’t been said out loud in a long time. Ruth helps you slow the
conversation down enough to hear it, and gives you practical ways to talk when things get
tense. You can come as a couple or on your own — plenty of people start solo.
You might recognize yourself here if:
- You keep having the same argument in different words.
- You’ve started editing yourself to keep the peace.
- You want to stay together, but you’re not sure how to get back to each other.
Dating, Confidence & Personal Development
Get clear on what you want, then ask for it.
Dating gets a lot harder when you’re not sure what you’re looking for, or when
you’ve been taught that wanting things is too much. This is work on knowing your own
standards, saying them out loud, and staying steady when someone pushes back. It’s
also for people who aren’t dating at all right now and just want to feel more like
themselves. Ruth will be honest with you, kindly, about the patterns she notices.
You might recognize yourself here if:
- You keep meeting the same kind of person and calling it bad luck.
- You say yes when you mean no, and resent it a day later.
- You can talk a friend through anything, but you freeze when it’s your own life.
Children, Teens & Family Support
Support for parents, and for the kids they worry about.
Ruth works with parents and guardians on the day-to-day of raising kids —
communication, boundaries, routines, and the arguments that keep repeating. She also meets
with teens directly when it’s a good fit, always with a parent or guardian’s
consent and involvement. This is coaching support for your family, not care for a diagnosed
condition; if something more serious is going on, Ruth will say so and help you think about
who else to bring in. The goal is a house where people can actually talk to each other.
You might recognize yourself here if:
- Every conversation with your teenager turns into a standoff.
- Your home runs on reminders, and you’re the only one giving them.
- You and your co-parent are sending the same kid two different messages.
Addiction Recovery & Life Transitions
Structure and accountability alongside the professional care you already have.
This is non-clinical support that works alongside — never instead of — your
doctor, your counselor, and any program or meetings you’re part of. Ruth doesn’t
diagnose anything or manage medical care. What she does is help you rebuild the ordinary
parts of a life: a workable week, honest relationships, a plan for the hours that used to be
hardest, and someone to check in with. She also works with family members of someone who is
struggling, which is its own kind of exhausting.
You might recognize yourself here if:
- You’re doing the work with your professional support, and the rest of your week still feels shapeless.
- You’ve rebuilt the big things, and the small daily ones keep slipping.
- Someone you love is struggling, and you can’t tell where you end and their situation begins.